Pathology reports on the tissue came in... absolutely no abnormalities and no signs of molar pregnancy or cancerous cells. He said surgery went well and all looked great, this was complete "freak accident" that from a medical standpoint should not happen again.
My aches/pains should subside soon. I must either continue with prenatals and folic acid (especially if we want to get pregnant again in a few months) as this is believed to help reduce the chance of miscarriage. If we don't plan on getting pregnant soon, I'm to take a multi-vitamin and if this doesn't help, see my regular doc. for help with the bruising. Doc said he was/is so relieved I chose to do the surgery and hopes I feel the same (I do).
He said there is no medical reason to not get pregnant again, but they recommend waiting 1-3 months so you can emotionally and physically recover (more for superstitious/voo-doo reasons, than medical facts). He has seen women carry a healthy pregnancy right away. He referenced a study I had already read that stated women who miscarried had a better success rate if they fell pregnant within 6 months of the miscarriage. He did encourage us to discuss our growing family (since this pregnancy was unplanned) and make the best decision for us.
I think Kevin and I had discussed a pregnancy/trying around Liam's 18th month. Kevin would have to extend on these orders (major downfall) but we'd be able to get another baby in before sea duty rears its ugly head again! Kevin's a sweetie and great father... doesn't want to miss the third pregnancy (and hopefully second birth) for anything in the world.
If there is one thing I've/we've learned from all this... plans are just wishful thoughts. So we're going to go with the punches and hope for a miracle, when it's meant to be for us. I know, I know... we always plan! Our new attitudes are quite a surprise to everyone I'm sure.
For now, I'm/we are relieved with the results and so grateful there is hope for another Fagundes baby some day. Sure did a lot for my soul to hear that! And truthfully Liam is such a blast and I/we are still soaking it up with him! He is an amazing blessing, I cannot even put into words how special he is and what he means to me/us. Truly, truly a unique individual... everyone (complete strangers) are drawn to him, including me. My heart is full and for that, I am thankful.
Hugs upon hugs to You all for your support. Extra hug to my mother in law who watched Liam Friday night so Kev could take me to dinner and a concert! Such a nice way to let loose! Extra hugs to my parents who are taking Liam, the pups and me in next week while Kevin is away on a business trip. I know they'll heal the rest of my pain and Liam will so enjoy this time. And thanks to everyone for all the texts, calls, emails and visits. Your love truly, truly inspired me during those dark days. Hugs, hugs, hugs and thanks from the bottom of my heart. I/we are blessed with the best of family and friends.
Leaving you with photos of my/our handsome miracle!
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